Discipline Without Tears

 

Table of Contents:

Overview of Theoretical Basis
Theoretical Basis
Basic Assumptions
Basic Tenets
Overt Teacher Behaviors
Vocabulary
Educational Insights and Instructional Implications
Strengths
Weaknesses
The Role Play
References
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Overview of Theoretical Basis:

This project, which focuses on the behavior management model proposed by Rudolf Dreikurs, will help the classroom teacher by offering one way to handle classroom management.  Discipline Without Tears presents the teacher as a guide and students as active participants within the classroom.  We focused on several specifics of the theory, including educational implications, strengths, weaknesses, and how the theory relates to education.  There is also a role play that shows teacher and student interaction, through shared decision making by both parties.

Dreikursí writings all have a common bond with social psychologist Alfred Adler.  This bond is that all behavior, including misbehavior, is orderly, purposeful, and directed toward achieving social recognition.  Each action is goal-directed.  The ìinnerî goal results in the ìoutwardî behavior.  The teacher must have a student who misbehaves recognize his ìinnerî goal and then help the student to change to the more appropriate goal of learning how to belong with others.

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Role Play:

Teachers can no longer resolve conflicts by fighting or giving in.  Fighting or imposing oneís values violates respect for the child, and giving in, or permissiveness, violates respect for the adult.  In a democratic setting, conflicts have to be resolved by following four basic steps.  They are:

1. Establish mutual respect.
2. Pinpoint the issue.
3. Explore alternatives.
4. Come to a new agreement by shared decision making.
1. Establish mutual respect.  We cannot influence another person unless we have a good relationship with that person.  A good relationship rests on mutual respect.  Unless the child feels respected, it will be difficult for the teacher to motivate and to change his behavior.
2. Pinpoint the issue.  Pinpointing the issue of the conflict helps the child to realize the private logic of his behavior, for instance:

Carrie attacks children whenever they perform well.  The teacher asks for a reason, but she claims that she is only trying to be amusing or funny.

TEACHER:  Carrie, do you know that you always attack people when they do well?
CARRIE:  (No answer)
TEACHER:  Do you know why you do this?
CARRIE:  I told you, Iím only joking.
TEACHER:  Are you aware that you never joke when children perform poorly?
CARRIE: No.
TEACHER: Could it be that you think that you canít do as well?
CARRIE:  Maybe.
TEACHER: Could it be that you are angry at yourself because of this?
CARRIE: Maybe.
TEACHER: Could it be that you are also angry at these children?
CARRIE: No answer.

The teacher has pinpointed the true reason for Carrieís ìjoking.î

3. Exploring alternatives.  In any conflict the teacher and the student should explore all possibilities for dealing with the problem effectively.

TEACHER:  I understand how you feel, Carrie.  Could you handle your feelings differently?
CARRIE:  I donít know.
TEACHER: May I make a suggestion?
CARRIE:  Sure.
TEACHER:  Would you be willing to say or do nothing?
CARRIE:  I could say something nice.
TEACHER:  Only if you feel like it.  But, would you be willing to say nothing?  Would you be willing to accept help from me and the students in the areas in which you would like to improve?
CARRIE: I donít know.

4. Come to a new agreement by shared decision making.  The student and the teacher reach a decision and come to an agreement.

TEACHER: Would you know if you had a little more time?
CARRIE: I think so.
TEACHER: Could you give me your answer tomorrow?
CARRIE: Yes.
TEACHER:  Is this an agreement?
CARRIE: Yes.
 


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