Coming Out to the GLBT Community
Often, after spending some time getting in touch with one’s own feelings, the next step is to come out to others. It is usually advisable to come out first to those that are most likely to be supportive. GLBT people are a potential natural support system because they have all experienced at least some of the steps in the process of coming out. Furthermore, coming out to other GLBT people can help you build a community of people who can support and assist you in coming out to others in your life. Many GLBT communities offer a number of helpful resources, including local coming out groups, social outlets, and political and cultural activities and organization.
Coming out to other GLBT people does not need to happen quickly. Also, choosing to do so does not mean that you must conform to real or presumed expectations of the GLBT community. What is most important is that you seek your own path through the coming out process and that you attend to your unique, personal timetable. You should not allow yourself to be pressured into anything you are not ready for or don’t want to do. It is important to proceed at your own pace, being honest with yourself and taking time to discover who you really are.
More Information About Coming Out
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